I’ve been seeing a lot of people on my feeds comming out as agender which is a concept I wasn’t aware off. Not being agender mind, but like coming out as agender? Like I dunno I’ve known I’m agender since I was like 14 tbh, but I thought it was like…. almost taking yourself out of the system of gender in general. Like there’s no ‘coming out’ cos you displace yourself in the system of ‘coming out’ at all. So how does one come out as something that is the very rejection of being anything genderwise?

I guess for people it isn’t a rejection of that system, as if not having a gender IS a gender in itself. I’m just a little cheesed I could’ve made a big deal of realising I was too and didn’t. FUCK I could’ve had a comming out party and everything.